John “J.J.” Jefferson Miller

July 19, 1966 - April 11, 2022

John Jefferson ‘J.J.’ Miller, age 55 of Wapakoneta, passed at 6:36 a.m., Monday, April 11, 2022 at St. Rita’s Mercy Health. He was born July 19, 1966 in Lima, Ohio to the late Bernard I. and Betty J. (Ray) Miller. He was preceded in death by his partner of 30 years, Mark J. Schaub, who passed on June 16, 2014

J.J. had worked as an apartment manager. He enjoyed traveling, camping, music, and dancing. He will be remembered as a people person who had a great sense of humor.

Survivors include 4 sisters- Shirley M. (David) Lenhart of Wapakoneta; Sheila A. (James) Morris of Wapakoneta; Janice F. Wehrman of Elida; Brenda K. (Dave) Greve of Wapakoneta; 2 brothers – Jeff L. Miller of Wapakoneta; Bernard I. ‘Bernie’ Miller, Jr. of Wapakoneta; 6 nieces and 5 nephews.

Private graveside services will be in Resthaven Cemetery, at a later date.

Memorial contributions may be made to St. Rita’s Hospice.

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Just found this online....kind of in shock....I remember Jay from my youth......He was so much fun to hang out with and party with...he had soooooo much JOY!....He was a bright light, always smiling. Jay and Mark were hallmarks of my youth and my days in the Lima, Ohio area.....may God bless and rest his soul. Peace Brother.

20 years ago 2 strangers met over a pool game and became instant friends. I will miss laughing, joking and watching TV with you my friend. Oh and tell Mark hello from Jack, Victoria and myself. You don't have to miss him anymore dear for I believe you are now reunited with him. Jack says he is gonna miss you a lot and that you where his best friend. Lol,go figure,Jack being sentimental!! Well friend it's time I say goodbye, only till we meet again. Keep everyone up there laughing!! I love you Thumper 💜

1 Peter 5:10 EVS And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. Be at peace, Jay.

My deepest sympathy to the entire family. So sorry for your loss.

My heart goes out to all of Jay’s friends! He truly is loved! And it breaks for both sides of “his” family. Love Brenda

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

I saw two geese on my way to the hospital that day. The day “ I just knew”, I was reminded…. Geese mate for life! One walking in front of the other as if to say, “ ya coming?” The other slowly catches up, walking side by side, happy to have each other. One MUST leave before the other…(Mark we love you) Left alone he sits,waits,try’s to exist and struggles for happiness. A void so deep, his entire being hurts, he becomes lost, a broken heart never to mend. Some say, “ Fly high Jay, fly high! He flies his hardest toward the Heavens, and hears “I’ve been waiting, ya coming?” He becomes a small speck…. Then GONE! Beyond the clouds, reunited, they fly together as a family once again. ( tell mom and dad “I love them”) Jay there is Peace… for all eternity, I promise…You we’re never alone Bub! We will fly together someday! Love Sis, “ Always”

In memory of John Jefferson "J.J." Miller, Tammy Schaub lit a candle

So sad, we will miss you JJ. Rest in peace with Mark now.

JJ and I were great friends growing up, his mom used to drive us all over Ohio bowling when we were kids. I am forever grateful to Betty, JJ, and the Miller family and extremely sorry for your loss.

JJ RIP , You will be greatly missed and loved so many great times.But now your at piece with Mark again. Fly High you will always be thought of.

I remember when me an jay dressed up for the Halloween party at Lulu's one year when I moved back from Texas we had a great time if only I can find the picture of us all together miss you best friend till we meet again

Jay will be missed by many a beautiful soul and now safe in heaven

Hugs and prayers to J’s family and friends. He was an amazing guy full of energy. Tell Mark Hi!! Be at peace now J. 💜🌻

I worked with Jay for a little over 2 years at Holiday Inn. He was a joy to work with and great friend. He will be sadly missed and many prayers to the family.

So very sorry for your loss! He was such a great people person and will be missed.

Fly high Jay

R.I.H. good friend you will be truly missed..

Jay you will truly be missed buddy Thoughts and prayers to the Miller family.

You will be greatly missed JJ. Thoughts and prayers for family and friends

In memory of John Jefferson "J.J." Miller, Perez Family lit a candle

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

Jay was one of the sweetest person I knew!

Jay was always a great person to be around. Full of energy and laughter. I'll always renege walking into him and getting a hey how's it going and a hug. Thoughts and prayers with his family and other friends. Rip jay

I enjoyed JJ as my neighbor when I lived next to him and Mark in Wapak. He was quick to put a smile on your face and my kids adored him. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and his friends.

Jay was a big part of my life for many years....I have sooo many amazing memories, laughs, and conversations we shared.... I'm beyond grateful for knowing such a lovely soul. Until we meet again my friend ❤️

Deepest sympathies to the family. He was always smiling and fun to be around.

Will miss his craziness. So Sorry for your loss....

Miller Family,So SORRY for the loss of JJ. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.Jim and Jane (McCune) McDonald

In memory of John Jefferson "J.J." Miller, Andrea lit a candle

Jay you will be missed deeply. I know you are where you have wanted to be for many years now, with Mark. I pray you are now at peace, love you always Jay. Tell uncle Bill I love him cuz I know he is with you too ❤️

Boy jay will you be missed. That smile that was always lighting up the room and that laugh I can hear it now . been friends with you so long . Now your where u wanted to be with Mark. I love and will always think of you both. Forever you will be missed . Fly high my friend .

Zach and I want to extend our deepest sympathy to each and everyone of you.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.